Thursday, February 4, 2010

Voice Mail

I am really bad at checking my voice mail. REALLY bad. I have a habit of leaving them as reminders to call people back after I've missed a call. Then I forget that they are still in my inbox and a few days (or weeks) later, I realize that I forgot and panic that the people whose calls I've missed are upset because I haven't called them back. Then I listen to all of them at once and try to call everyone back. And then usually I have to leave voice mails for the people I call back and then they call me back and I miss their call and they leave me one...it's a vicious cycle and maybe one day I will learn my lesson.

Anyways, today was one of those days that I panicked and realized I had a bunch of voice mails I hadn't listened to. I had a few from my mom, a reminder that I had an appointment to get my hair cut last Thursday, a call from my dad, and a few from Patrick when he was still in Jackson Hole.

And then there was the one from Camden's genetic counselor.

When we had our initial meeting with Cam's geneticist on December 15th, they did a skeletal exam (aka, they took about a million x-rays of every bone in Cam's body) and also took blood to run a DNA test to confirm that Camden has the genetic mutation for achondroplasia. A few days after the appointment, his genetic counselor (who is also named Cam:)) called to tell us that the skeletal exam came back consistent with Dr. Spence's diagnosis of achon. She said she would call us in a month or so when the DNA test results came back for more confirmation.

I called her back when I got the message today and of course, got her voice mail. I left her a message to call me back while simultaneously praying that I wouldn't miss her call so she wouldn't fall back into my voice mail black hole. She called back about 15 minutes later, right after I picked up my phone to make sure my ringer was on. I apologized for being a crappy voice mail checker and she laughed and told me that she was actually glad that I called back today instead of last week.

This is when it gets weird.

She told me that she called last week to tell us that the test they ran to confirm Cam's achon came back NEGATIVE.

NEGATIVE.

WHAT?

Apparently they tested him for the 2 most common gene mutations that are found in people with achon. And they both came back NEGATIVE. WHAT?

So of course I freaked out. Did this mean that we are back at square one? Would we have to go back to more specialists to try to find out what else could be causing all of Cam's growth issues? Would he have to have more tests and meet more scary people in white coats?

Then she told me the good news. She told me that they sent his sample back to the lab to test it for a different mutation--one found in a different type of dwarfism called hypochondroplasia, which is very similar to achon. Apparently when I called a few minutes before, she had JUST gotten the results back from that test. She told me was seeing a patient and when she finished with that appointment, the results were waiting for her on her desk. Dr. Spence hadn't even seen them yet. She said that as she was thumbing through Camden's folder, she happened to check her voice mail and hear my message. WEIRD.

She then went on to tell me that Cam DOES have the mutation for hypochondroplasia.

I can't tell you how excited I am to know 100% for sure what is going on with my little guy...





...and I promise I am going to be a much better voice mail checker from now on:)

5 comments:

Miche said...

Hi! I'm visiting from Megan Grace's blog. I'm glad you guys have answers now.

And p.s. he is super cute!

Unknown said...

Wow, so glad to hear that you have a concrete answer! Isn't it amazing how it still takes so many doctors and tests to give us the answers we need?? But of course, you already know that your little man is just perfect!

Unknown said...

Hi,

My name is terri Brinkley. I work in Danville, Va and your sweet grandfather told me about Camden today. I read your story and I am so glad that he has a wonderful mom and dad to care for him! You will find ,if not already, that he will teach you far more than any other child or adult could ever teach! I have 3 children...Rachel 21, Sarah 18, and Caleb 10. Caleb has a kniest dysplasia. He is a handsome, smart,funny, and wonderful child! We have met many little people over the years..adults and children...who have all enhanced our lives and understanding of differences amoung people. We take Caleb to AI DuPont Children's Hospital in Delaware and his orthpedic is Dr. william MacKenzie. It is an International Skeletal Dyspasia Clinic. If there is ever anything I can help you with or if you just want to talk about our amazing children please call me! 434-799-1308. God Bless you and yur sweet son!

Terri Brinkley

Kristen said...

hello, my name is Kristen. I have a 3 1/2 year old son with Hypochondroplasia. He was diagnosed by a genetisist a little after he turned 1. He is living a great life. He is in therepy,APE and speech but for the most part fits right in. He started taking Growth Hormones a few months ago . We have been on a long journey of discovery and frustration, but it is a JOY to move on and accept peoples comments and teach others so they are not ignorant about LP. If you have any questions...
Hypochondroplasiakid@blogspot.com

Andrea said...

Hi Jane!
My son was 2 when he was diagnosed with hypochondroplasia. He is now an almost 5 year old happy and healthy boy. I've heard that children born with hypo are born with an extra happy gene!!
You can learn more about our story at http://keepingupwiththekunzs.blogspot.com/

Would you mind if I linked up to your blog in my dwarfism section? There seems to be a few more hypo mommies and blogs out there now and I think we can be a great resource to each other.

Andrea